It Was Illegal
Dunking a basketball in a game was illegal in the NCAA.
A goalie wearing a facemask in a game was illegal in the NHL.
To buy, use, possess and grow recreational cannabis was illegal in Canada.
Looking back, the things we take for granted would be weird, odd, and extremely rare.
Where you are now.
To where you desperately want to be.
It would be bizarre and unorthodox to change and would be slightly uncomfortable.
Sometimes you undervalue your own strength.
A subtle alchemy — the process of transformation — makes you believe in your ability to have the courage to grab it.
There is a reason why things evolved in the NCAA, NHL, and Canada.
You have a desire to have self-assurance and be the person you have always wanted to be.
Whether you are in the dark, facing obstacles, or standing at the starting line with fear, I will hold your hand mentally and tell you what you are going to feel, before you feel it.
Lump in throat.
Cramping.
Butterflies in your stomach.
Doubts.
Quickly becomes relief, excitement, and positive energy.
It may be an unrealistic goal and considered magic.
But sitting down, having clarity of the correct actions to strive for, and having the right cadence will give you enough confidence to take the next step forward.
Together we will look back, ask the right questions, and be extremely proud of everything you have accomplished.
-Arthur