1 vs 18 (Have You Ever Seen A Grown Man Cry?)

SUMMARY

Have binders on and focus on you. If you do that, you will hit your goals a lot faster than you think.

Check it out and let me know what you think in the comments.

Here’s what we cover: 

1. Don’t worry about other people and focus on you.

2. Listen to your doctors, family, teachers and trainers.

3. Sometimes you have to cry. But always have discipline to make actions for your goals.

Let’s win and have some fun!

Arthur

TRANSCRIPT

So this one is simple. Don't compare your chapter one to everyone's chapter 18. I struggle with it a lot, and I hope this video will help you. So when I had a stroke, it didn't register to me as in my hospital bed. And my family was looking at me. I had these tubes all over me, but I can move my arm and leg. So I think I'm fine. I wanted to walk by the doctor and my family said, no, Hmm. Now it's getting weird. Me talking gets even weird because they couldn't understand me. My head really hurt, but I think I'll be okay.

I closed my eyes because maybe I thought of the dream. I opened my eyes and it wasn't your dream about a week or two later? I couldn't read names. I told my brother, dad, I wanted to talk and text my students, but we quickly found out that I couldn't. I told myself not to cry because I'm very, very, very, very, very lucky. But I was crying. I didn't understand what was wrong with me or what just happened or I'm really sorry. My eyes and head really hurt. But what I do, I use my calendar to copy their name so I could FaceTime and tell them, I'm sorry, but I'm not here for you. It's weird. I couldn't recognize the voice without seeing them. It's like a new door that opened whenever I talked to them. Right? Wow. Or that's right. I forgot about that. I tried to talk, but my brother took the phone and talked to me because I couldn't everyone.

John chapter 18, 1920, 21. Just focus on chapter one. I forget how I said it because I couldn't talk before. But I had told my brother and sister, I want to talk like bill Gates, Barack Obama and Isla marks. They thought I was crazy. You just had a stroke and you were paralyzed, focuses on the homework sheet and rest, every morning I was crying because I didn't understand that there are many versions of stroke, but now I know clearly I need to go from chapter a thousand back to chapter one. One of my teachers told me to walk on a treadmill. I'm like, okay, but I walked here. I tried to run. But all the other teacher was like, Oh my gosh, what's he doing? If I don't go back to chapter one, then I'm going to hurt myself. Looking back at it. Now I was wrong, very wrong. I'm sorry. Taught it. Teaches and adopters.

I'm human. I made a lot of mistakes all the time. I thought I have a vision, but now my doctors, family and teachers are my new trainer. Michael Jordan tiger woods and Serina Williams day. I have trainers and I need to focus on myself or maybe don't even read the book yet. I know the facts. I'm not smart. I'm not intelligent. I'm not talented. Or I don't have good knowledge. The only thing I know is that I work hard. That's probably not good now, but I'm learning. Don't be like me. It's my DNA. I have gratitude. And now listen to my teachers and I'm ready. So when they first had me doing the body parts, I thought it was easy. M when I try to say it, I couldn't now it really gets weird. I would really say to myself, focus, don't analyze it. Just do it. I always put my fingers to my nose, my ears, or my arms saw that I caretaker or anyone who is walking by. So they were telling me the name didn't register to me. When I said arm, I would hear the word, but it would just, it just didn't make sense at the time. I still didn't get it. But if I don't do it, then knowing us well, focus on chapter one.

I remember I saw these pictures. All my teachers and doctors would always have me doing this. I thought I could say what I wanted to say, but clearly I was wrong. Now I could understand it and I could talk about it, but it takes time, no room for complainant. So I put my head down and I'm like, okay, let's go. You got to have patience, but resilience. It's weird. But the letters were super hard. Like, like PhD, Harvard at the time, I was thinking maybe my eyes, maybe my brain babies writers have their parents saying ABC to them. So I'm like, okay. I kept on writing and doing it all the time that the teacher is like, okay, you know what? Now let's add words. I'm like, Whoa words.

Okay. Now this step I'm ready. The dates are hard even now, but slowly, slowly, slowly, slowly, slowly. I get it slowly. I know the teacher told me to either newspaper for a lesson and I'm like, I'm not calling him Bobo. Can we use a book that I read before I had stroke for the lesson? He's like, okay. It was the 10 X rule. And I could read and speak to word. But honestly, I didn't understand it. I always wonder how hard it would be for me to read letters from the bank. More grudges, hospital emails, tax. If our why then for my amazing family, teachers and doctors, sometimes I have to watch the same movie that I watched before, but I would always add tax Subutex. And I also listen to an audio book and read the same book at the same time, active beginning hours, way off weeks, month or a year.

And I got it brick by brick day by day. Focus on chapter one. So like me, a lot of times you guys forget you're on chapter one, two or three. It's the framework of you or maybe you're perfect. Clearly. I'm not. I want to be your best I could be when you better house, you honor have a proper framework and solid foundation it's essential. And once you are fully connected there, you have a personal blueprint. Don't worry. Look at it. I think people in the gym, Instagram on the news, maybe for motivation, you have to have blinders on. Don't get distracted and focus on you. If you don't have blinders on, you may look at the glass ceiling and be like, there's no air recheck. I put my blinders on and I want to see what would happen if I did my homework every day, I walk every day. And I just, so when I reached the glass ceiling, I'm ready and I climbed a ladder. My hammer, there's no glass ceiling. It takes time and you can do it probably a lot faster. Don't compare your chapter one to everyone. Chapter 18, look at your contact book, please louder focus and channel your energy onto that chapter paragraph or sand it all away. Do that. And honestly, you're finished a book in no time. I hope you and your family and let's win that squirrel and let's have some fun peace.